One of my friends asked me this question recently: "how come you never wear fancy cloth or makeup?"

 

This is something I want to address. (And if my opinion differ from yours, I hope you won't be offended.)

 

I find that a lot of girls today dress to please, whether it's to please themselves, or other people, I'm not sure. But we are sending a negative image to the society.

 

Image we are sending to Guys
I believe that just about everyone can look good if they tried. But think about it, if a guy likes you just for your looks, how much are you worth to him? He'd soon find a prettier girl and abandon you. When we try to look "good", we not only let the guy's imagination run (which in itself is dangerous), but also we don't allow them to love us for who we are but rather what we look like. We gotta show them that we are more than just pretty faces.

 

Self-esteem
You are worth more than just how you look. I know that seems hard, (I struggle with this too) especially when no one looks like magazine covers. But dressing to impress comes off to me a lot of times as being insecure. People who are insecure about their self-esteem (I'm not saying everyone) tend to be extremely conscious about how they look, and we think that without looking good, somehow our self-esteem is lowered, or even destroyed.

 

Of course my opinion may seem a bit extreme to most people, but girls, I urge you to dress more modestly. Looks may win a guy's heart in the short run, but a gentle and kind heart lasts much longer. After all, beauty doesn't last forever. Will the guy still love you when you're 50?